For Guys 5 Best Ways To Change Her From ‘Crush’ To ‘Girlfriend’

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Being silently mad over someone is not enough. You have
to let them know about it.
If you are a single guy, chances are that there is a babe
at your place of work, on your street, church or on your
Instagram that you are really mad over.
Being silently mad over someone is not enough. You have
to let them know about this crush by either sliding into
that DM, walking up to them in person or better still, by
following these sure-as-hell tips:

1.
Don’t sweat it
If you are getting yourself worked up with the thought of
getting your crush, you are doing it wrong.
“Ask yourself, ‘what’s the worst that could happen?’”
Uwanma advises.
It’s either she says ‘yes’ or says ‘no.’
Only one of these two things can ever happen, and even if
she says no, there’s still a chance that she’ll change her
mind in the nearest future if you stick with the tips
provided here.
So, what’s the point in overthinking and getting yourself
overly worked up about it?

2.
First become her friend
Experience and comments from many women have firmly
confirmed that the best way to get any woman is to be
friends with her first. It is better to get close and
familiarize yourself with her… get to know her likes,
dislikes… go out on few dates and then pop the question
when she’s really comfortable with being with you.
It is better this way than walking up to a random person
and asking them for a relationship on the very contact
you have with them, says the vlogger.
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3. Body language
You can also gauge your chances with her by the things
she does after you have become friends.
“Most times when a woman is into you,” Uwanma
candidly says, “while she won’t necessarily tell you, she
will keep doing stuff to you that’ll point to the fact.”
Most times, her body language speaks volumes about
whether she likes you or not – she touches your hand,
face, shoulder, leans into you… it goes on and on.
That way, you could somewhat gauge your chance of
succeeding with her.

4. Ask casually and maturely
Asking a babe to share a part of her life with you is not a
matter of life and death, and should not be treated as
such.
Don’t go all teary-eyed, and overly-emotional about it.
And also try not be childish about your reaction if she
says no.
Don’t forget, there are always two possible answers when
you try this: she either says yes, or no.


5. A ‘No’ could change later
Women appreciate patience and men who treat them well,
Uwanma says.
If she does not say yes now, it does not necessarily mean
the answer can’t change. So there’s no need to be rude or
give up.
Gentle persistence without being pushy or extra about the
whole thing could eventually clear the path for you.