Insignificant Things That Kills A Relationship ( By Raymujeedah)

SHARE THIS POST

*Insignificant things that kills a Relationship.*
    In actual fact,it's normal to have broken relationship,in a relationship where you have to deal with domestic violence, cheating partner/infidelity, assault and so on,going apart is the best solution.
   However there are some insignificant things that breaks a relationship.I will be deliberating on few unnecessary things that breeds premature relationships.

-Little or no trust
     Trust is a said to be one of the foundation of a healthy relationship. In a relationship where one can't vouch for one's partner, you can't predict where he/she can be or what he/she is doing at a particular time, such relationship is heading towards the rock.You should be able to trust your partner,if not 100%, at least to some extend.If you don't trust your partner, you can't love him/her..

-Too much Expectations.
        Of course, it's actually cool,to expect more in a relationship, but being too much can cause disappointment, anxiety and frustration.
    In a relationship where you expect too much,you forecast a perfect relationship/perfect partner who you think should know what you want and the time you want them,such a relationship can be broken..

-Lies
A Yoruba adage says"A house built on lies will surely be destroyed by wind").You can hide some things from your partner but you can't hide them forever.
       Trust me one day they will find out and this will break the relationship you have built no matter how solid the foundation.Lies are relationship wrecker, if you want to build a healthy relationship, you must be truthful to your partner by sharing your past and present experience.



-Courtesy
Relationships brings two people of different attitude/morals and mentality. Some people lack the power to ask for forgiveness, appreciate, cherish and so on.Some even think it's normal and see nothing wrong even when their partner complains!.
       A relationship can come to it's final end,if one of them lacks courtesy. Words/phrases like
I'm sorry
Sorry
Please
Thank you and so on can go along way and you have idea  what it meant to your partner.It's insignificant but it's one of the things that breaks a relationship.



-Finding faults in your partner
Argument/misunderstanding are born to happen in any relationship in fact they make relationship healthier if and only if both partners knows how to manage and solve them.
    In any relationship,where one partner finds fault easily/blames his/her partner for their arguments such relationship might be be heading towards the rock.
   Also calling your partner names like "Mr perfect " "Miss know it all" and so on,can bring your relationship to an halt!..

In any relationship,ups and downs are inevitable,during the hard times,love will help and put you through it all..